Date Scenario

Why Do Foreigners Choose Wives From Belarus?

It should be noted right away that the domesticity and fireside of Belarusian women affect the overseas princes better than aphrodisiacs. So, they say themselves:

  • Lars, 47, director

It seems to me that the media in Western Europe have overdone it when talking about gender equality. Now we’re all focused on work and career growth. Moreover, the girls believe that it’s cool: to conduct business aggressively, to be tough leaders. They transferred this desire for equal professional opportunities to all spheres of life and lost their femininity. This was reflected both in appearance (overweight, careless clothes) and in character. Europeans lack warmth, delicacy, charm, elementary good manners.

I don’t share these views, so I would like to marry Belarusian women. I don’t think there’s any serious difference in everyday life. Appliances do a lot for us, and there’s no need to spend a lot of time on housework. Belarusians also want to occupy high positions, have a good salary, but they’re not focused on this. I am sure that I can create a real, strong family only when marrying a Belarusian woman.

  • Thomas, 42, engineer, married to a Belarusian woman

We were taught from childhood that we must first get on our feet, and only then think about the family. And what happens: we all work hard and by 40, we start looking for a soulmate. But the fact is that by the same age, women already have everything: a career, a house, and a car. You have nothing to offer her, and she doesn’t need you. Moreover, we have almost no chance of meeting. For instance, after work, I go to the gym, on weekends, I play football with friends. Where could I meet a pretty lady?

Therefore, I looked for my love on the Internet — among Belarusian women for marriage. The point is not at all in their beauty, or rather, not only in this. With her, I can be a gentleman. Many things were unusual for me at first, for instance, to open the door in front of a woman, to help her take off her coat. But I feel like a real man.

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Date Scenario

Perfect Date Scenario

Walking in the park or drinking coffee together is nice, but still completely trite. It’s also impossible to be creative, focusing only on yourself: there’s a possibility of bringing a vegan to a steakhouse. This day should give both of you unforgettable emotions and impressions. We have prepared four scenarios for the perfect first date for you.

  1. Intellectual-romantic Scenario

It’s an option for romantics with a calm temperament. An excellent option for sensual individuals would be a date in a quiet and cozy place. For a person to feel comfortable and be able to reveal to you, it’s better to create a warm atmosphere with a specific theme. Examples:

  • Go to the bookstore coffee shop. You can walk among the shelves, discuss your favorite books and drink delicious tea.
  • Dreamy people will surely enjoy the planetarium. The two of you can look at the constellations through a telescope, and after the lecture, find and count them in the real starry sky.
  1. Extreme Scenario

On the first date, not everyone can relax and joke constantly. In order not to break your neck, trying to relieve the tension, it’s better to initially choose the environment that itself is conducive to fun. You can add a touch of extreme. The best option would be a place where you can laugh and hit your nerves at the same time. So, you will definitely remember these exciting moments together. Where to go?

  • An amusement park. During an extreme situation, you can snuggle up to your new friend or take their hand.
  • Quest rooms. A common mission will bring you closer and turn you into one team.
  • Balloon. At a high-rise, you can not only

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Girl Does on a First Date

5 Things a Girl Does on a First Date

Girls, being creatures with a fine mental organization and, as a result, a reckless faith in signs and symbols, experience the first date many times more acutely than men do. It’s in your power to support the girl at this difficult moment in her life. And for this, you need to know the typical female patterns of behavior on the first date. So, every girl on the first date… 

  1. Is Late

If a girl makes you wait for 5 to 15 minutes, she’s very interested in you. If it’s 15 to 40 minutes, you have a chance to cause interest.

Your actions: If she’s more than 40 minutes late and, at the same time, doesn’t let you know that she’s late — what are you doing here with her?

  1. Agonizes over the Menu

She may be too excited to eat. Or, on the contrary, she’s very hungry and wonders whether it’s ethical to order a hamburger when you come in a T-shirt with the inscription “Animals are our friends”.

Your actions: Save her from torment with a simple question: “Fish or meat?” Or even offer to make an order yourself. 

  1. Tries to Find Your Weak Points

Believe it or not, not all girls like to date married fathers of five children. That’s why she tries as tactfully as possible, with leading questions like “Have you ever been accused of murder?” to determine if you’re a suitable candidate for further communication.

Your actions: Unfortunately, you have to be as truthful as possible, especially if you like the girl. 

  1. Tries to Avoid Awkward Pauses

As a result, she fills them with anything. Even much more awkward than the pause, the story of how during the sinusitis she slept with her mouth open. 

Your actions: Act bluntly and decisively: “Let me tell you about my amazing job as an IT guy.” You will let the girl catch her breath, come to her senses, and you won’t learn a lot of completely unnecessary things about her.

  1. Waits for a Spark

Your gazes are about to meet, your hands will accidentally find each other, your fingers will inadvertently intertwine, romantic music will play. And then she will tell her grandchildren: “That’s when your grandfather and

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Perfect Date

The Main Condition for a Perfect Date

Actually, the relationship can end before even getting to the second date! Therefore, we periodically tell you how to behave on the first date: what you can ask about, what you cannot ask, and even what things you need to have with you. Now, let’s talk about the main condition for a successful first date. And we didn’t invent this condition: it was the result of a survey conducted by sociologists at Singles In America.

Place of the Date

So, the main condition for a successful first date: the meeting should take place not in a restaurant, not in a cinema or even in an ophidiarium, but in a bar. Fortunately, the bar isn’t a dull watering hole. Modern bars are true cultural establishments with expensive drinks and decent design, where you can chat wholeheartedly while drinking sophisticated cocktails.

Everyone knows that alcohol makes us more communicative and talkative. Besides, under the influence of liquor, the true nature of a person appears faster. That is, instead of taking the girl to the theater several times and only on the fifth date to find out that she doesn’t drink, you could find it out on the first date, without wasting time and a music subscription for such a hopeless person.

According to the researchers, the first date at the bar has another advantage: it doesn’t oblige you to anything. If the classic first date — a movie and a restaurant — involves a long stay in the same space with a stranger, then everything is easier in the bar. You can leave at any time when something goes wrong.

As a rule, the first date shouldn’t take a lot of your time or money — it’s enough to get to know each other superficially. And only then, if after dozens of shots you still have pleasant memories of the interlocutor, you can ask them out for a second, “full” date at the theatre.

What do other surveys say?

According to surveys of various dating services: 

  • most often, respondents choose a restaurant or café as a place for dating, 
  • shopping and entertainment centers have become another popular location, 
  • 19% of respondents spoke in favor of dating at home or in an apartment. 

Almost 30% of respondents noted that they could treat a potential partner a little better if he/she came for a date in a car. 6% said they would

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Top 5 Worst Questions

Questions You Shouldn’t Ask a Girl on a First Date

The fact is that some guys have no idea how to behave with a lady and what they shouldn’t ask a girl on a first date. Such men aren’t interesting to women. Therefore, one of the reasons why this article appeared is so that men at least have an idea of what can and cannot be said to a woman when they meet for the first time.

  1. How Old Are You?

All men know that they cannot ask on the first date and subsequent ones too the age of the girl. Unfortunately, a lot of guys make this mistake. You should remember that it’s simply uncomfortable for a woman to reveal her age until she feels comfortable with a man. Besides, experienced men can roughly determine the age of a woman.

  1. Where Do You Want to Go?

Questions related to what restaurant a woman wants to go to, what movie to watch, what park to take a walk in are just what you shouldn’t ask on a first date. Because the lady is waiting for offers from you and wants the man to take the initiative so that you make her some kind of surprise: order a table in the restaurant in advance and plan everything carefully. And from such questions, the girl can simply get confused and feel embarrassed.

  1. How Much Money Do You Make?

The question related to income is simply inappropriate when dating. It’s okay to ask a woman how she makes a living or where she works. But then asking how much money she earns would be inappropriate. After all, few people like to reveal their financial side of life. The girl may also think that you’re in financial difficulties and are dating her only for the sake of profit.

  1. Do You Have an Apartment or a Car?

Questions related to apartments or cars are also related to the financial part. Therefore, no one wants to reveal their financial side of life to a little-known person. Besides, issues related to finances raise unnecessary doubts in a person and don’t inspire confidence. Therefore, if you want to get a chance for subsequent meetings with this lady and the continuation of the relationship, then don’t ask such questions.

  1. How Do You Feel About Children?

There’s no need to rush things and ask questions related to children and building

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