Girls, being creatures with a fine mental organization and, as a result, a reckless faith in signs and symbols, experience the first date many times more acutely than men do. It’s in your power to support the girl at this difficult moment in her life. And for this, you need to know the typical female patterns of behavior on the first date. So, every girl on the first date…
Is Late
If a girl makes you wait for 5 to 15 minutes, she’s very interested in you. If it’s 15 to 40 minutes, you have a chance to cause interest.
Your actions: If she’s more than 40 minutes late and, at the same time, doesn’t let you know that she’s late — what are you doing here with her?
Agonizes over the Menu
She may be too excited to eat. Or, on the contrary, she’s very hungry and wonders whether it’s ethical to order a hamburger when you come in a T-shirt with the inscription “Animals are our friends”.
Your actions: Save her from torment with a simple question: “Fish or meat?” Or even offer to make an order yourself.
Tries to Find Your Weak Points
Believe it or not, not all girls like to date married fathers of five children. That’s why she tries as tactfully as possible, with leading questions like “Have you ever been accused of murder?” to determine if you’re a suitable candidate for further communication.
Your actions: Unfortunately, you have to be as truthful as possible, especially if you like the girl.
Tries to Avoid Awkward Pauses
As a result, she fills them with anything. Even much more awkward than the pause, the story of how during the sinusitis she slept with her mouth open.
Your actions: Act bluntly and decisively: “Let me tell you about my amazing job as an IT guy.” You will let the girl catch her breath, come to her senses, and you won’t learn a lot of completely unnecessary things about her.
Waits for a Spark
Your gazes are about to meet, your hands will accidentally find each other, your fingers will inadvertently intertwine, romantic music will play. And then she will tell her grandchildren: “That’s when your grandfather and